Survivor Story: Lilia Neuman

Lilia with her social worker

Lilia Neuman fled Ukraine when the Nazis invaded and now lives in Sweden. The social worker who helps her, Maria Suchotina, is a “blessing,” Lilia says.


Lilia Neuman of Sweden smiles when she talks about her social worker, saying that she “helps me with everything. It’s a blessing to have her here.” This vital assistance, provided by the Jewish Community of Stockholm through grants from the Claims Conference, enables 95-year-old Lilia to stay safely in her Stockholm home.

Born in Belarus in 1922, Lilia grew up in Ukraine; her father, a tailor from Poland, died before the war, leaving her mother to take care of Lilia and her two brothers. After graduating from high school in 1940, Lilia moved to Kharkov where she studied to become a teacher. She was working in a school when the Germans invaded the Soviet Union in June 1941.

Escaping the Nazis with 300 students

Her mother and brothers fled, stopping in Kharkov on their way to Siberia. Lilia was able to take her younger brother with her to safety. But several months later, with about 300 young students and other teachers, they escaped to Kamerovo, a city in southwestern Siberia. “It was very cold there,” Lilia recalled. “We were in a building like a big store, and underneath, there was storage, and the girls could stay there. We slept on the shelves. The boys were in the stables, and they had to build shelves there. There was an open fire in the middle of the stable.”

The children worked in factories, Lilia said. “They were cold and they were very hungry. The soup we got was black from cold and was small portions.”

Moving  further into Siberia

In late 1942, Lilia, her brother and her students, who ranged in age from 10 to 16, were sent to Tomsk, in central Siberia. “They made a factory in an extra building at the university and the kids worked there,” she said. “I stayed on as their teacher; I was taking care of them and always with them.”

Map of Lilia's journey

Lilia and her family were forced to travel thousands of miles to escape persecution. They finally settled in Stockholm, Sweden where she has lived since 1969.

The family was reunited when she found her mother and other brother living in a small city on the Volga river. There, Lilia worked in an office which distributed food coupons and the family survived on the extra food coupons Lilia received. “I was young and strong,” Lilia remembered. “I walked to work many kilometers, back and forth every day, because the food that we got was really worth it!”

After the war ended, Lilia’s family went to live with a relative in western Ukraine. There, Lilia met her husband, also a Holocaust victim. She proudly says they married after one week and spent 57 years together. Lilia, her husband, and their two young children moved to Poland in 1957. They stayed until anti-Semitism there made life difficult, and they immigrated to Sweden in 1969, where Lilia worked in a store in Stockholm, and her husband found a job in a factory.  After her husband died in 2004, Lilia moved to a small apartment to be closer to her two children, both of whom also live in Stockholm.

Lilia’s social worker “is my heart”

Lilia received a one-time Hardship Fund payment from the Claims Conference several years ago. She receives services through the Jewish Community of Stockholm, and attends socialization programs during the year. Currently, a housekeeper comes several times each week. Her social worker, Maria, visits once or twice a week and the two women sit over coffee and chat about their families, Lilia said.

“Maria is my heart,” Lilia said with a smile. At 95, Lilia is in good health and is able to prepare her own meals. “Maria helps with the shopping,” Lilia said. “Just to have somebody here to help me, it is very comforting and it’s very nice. It’s not easy to be old.”

She has grandchildren and great-grandchildren and is happy her grandchildren insist they celebrate Shabbat dinner together every week. “We have to keep the family together, it’s very important,” she says.

Our assistance makes it possible for Lilia to live independently. “I am very pleased and grateful for this help,” she said. We will be there for Lilia for as long as she needs the aid, helping her feel comforted and secure.